Tuesday, February 3, 2009

Rainbow Bright


Daughter wants to dye her hair black. Her hair right now is between a dark blond and light brown. I do not think a dark color will do anything for her complexion. I think it will wash her out and make her look even paler than she is. Does anyone remember Rainbow Bright? This would be daughter's second choice. I have agreed to let her do underneath her hair black and bleach out some spots in her hair so she can play with the color of the rainbows. I feel like she is 5 years old again playing with her play dough person. She would shove a mixture of colors into the mans head and push. Like magic the hair would grow in a bunch of rainbow colors. She was always mixing the colors together. Never was she satisfied with a monotone of color. I guess thinking back on that I shouldn't be surprised that she would want to do it to her own head 12 years later. Daughter kind of has the free spirit of Rainbow Bright. She loves bright colors and has a happy upbeat attitude. She expresses herself with lots of color and I guess using her hair shouldn't be any different the accessorizing with her clothes. Am I a bad mother for actually liking the idea of her playing with the "colors" instead of dying her hair black like Mortitia from the Adams family and looking like the walking dead. I'd rather see her with happy colors in her hair then with the black that will wash her out. At least when she goes out she can make the little kids happy. They could use her to learn their colors. Daughter does this make any sense to you?

Sunday, February 1, 2009

DAUGHTER: soo she replies ...

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and for your information .. no is not no to me .. it is both N and O .. and .. letters mean nothing ( bad explination.. i know )
let's try this again
"No" does not sustain itself to my mind when my mother tells me no without a legitimate reason to back it up.
do u understand that?
hmm ... how else can i put this ...
i cant think of a way ...

heres an example of my reasoning
this is modeled after an acctual argument between me and my mom

daughter: I WANT TO GO TO A CONCERT IN 2 WEEKS CAN I GO?

mom: I DONT KNOW , WE'LL SEE

daughter: PLEASE??

mom: YOU KNOW WHAT ? ... NO!

daughter: Y NOT?

mom:I DONT LIKE WHERE THE CONCERT IS BEING HELD , THERE IS A BAR UPSTAIRS

daughter: YOU LET ME TRAVEL TO EUROPE ALONE ... Y DONT U TRUST ME TO GO TO A CONCERT?

mom: ITS DIFFERENT

daughter: HOW?

mom: IM NOT DISCUSSING THIS RIGHT NOW!

get it now?
if not.. idk what to tell u .. im a teenager .. our reasoning is different then yours ... soo .. i dont know what to tell you

the N'd
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MOTHERS DAY REPLY

ohhh yes ... that was funny ... xD
haha
well .. that year my mom kept saying , " i want more kids" and my dad , well i don't really know what he was thinking ... o_O .. but something came up in conversation , and my dad said ooh "well .. a kid is a baby goat". we looked at eachother and started laughing , and decided for mothers day to get my mom a goat .. .well acctually2 :]
it was funny , we got her other things too , dont worry !! xD
but .. later , she ended up getting 2 more goats for easter , and i got chickens. So it wasnt a one way battle ..ok? and , then she wanted donkeys , we got donkeys now , and for valentines day the following year , we got our dumb lovable clump of red fur , blue (hes our irish setter). soo now we have 7 goats 3 dogs 3 cats 4 birds (large birds not those parakeets) and 2 chickens (left) soo ... we keep busy ... xD


the N'd